Teflon pans contains PF0A which is a very doingerous chemical. Just think what goes into your food when you place your frying pan on fire in such a high temperature. Please for your own safty and your children's, think about alternatives such as ceramics or stonedine which I know is expensive but it's worth it. Do a search in the Internet and see how bad they are. These chemicals also attract fat in your body especially in women. They also have been found in breast milk which means babies receive PFOA easily through breast feeding. It may also cause earlu puberty for children due to mimicing estrogen property of these chemicals.
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